From Gatherings to Growth: How Cocktail/Mocktail Hour Was Born

The reality is, this concept started ten years ago, under a different name, but with the same intention.

Back then, it was called Saturday Gather Day. It was born out of a very specific need. As a social introvert, who had finally found my people and the events and spaces that fulfilled me, there was never a shortage of things to attend. In fact, just this week, one of my favorite DJs personally invited me to her set. I didn’t have anything on my calendar because I am prepping for a camping trip, but sometimes it’s just that simple, say yes and see where it leads.

Over time, here is what I noticed, my social calendar was filled with all the things I enjoy and I was dancing and drinking with people I’d see every week. I genuinely liked them, but I didn’t know them. Not really. It wasn’t until our social circles started blending into house gatherings that I realized how amazing these people were. We connected and bonded, and I have memories that will last a lifetime.

That’s when it clicked, I needed something more lowkey, a space where we could go beyond surface-level and actually connect. Because I don’t invite just anyone into my home. It’s about energy around here.

I wanted a space where connection was the focus. We could gather, sip and share perspectives that maybe challenged us, but stretched and deepened our understanding. A space for open minds and expansive conversation.

That idea grew into Saturday Gather Day (2016-2019) and is now Cocktail/Mocktail Hour. The concept was relaunched in 2022 with the same heartbeat, but even more intention. I am amazed when I look back at how this idea has evolved. What started as a way to gather and connect with good people, it has now grown into a curated experience. It is the catalyst behind my exploration into Cocktail Culture. A drink in your hand isn’t just a drink, it’s part of the experience that invites connection and joy.

And the podcast? The podcast exists because one of my guests believed in the concept so much, she presented the idea to me in such a way, I couldn’t say no. She’d taken all the reasons I felt like I wouldn’t or couldn’t do it, away. So now you can be a part of this, wherever you are.

I’ve grown so much, personally, creatively, and professionally. I joined a mentor group and learned how to approach this with intention and strategy. I am expanding and creating new ways for us to connect through conversation and cocktails. I can’t wait to share what I’m working on with you!

If you’re new here, let me share what some of our guests have said:

“I love how it felt like a safe space. Whether people agreed or disagreed with your perspective, everyone respected on another’s opinion.” – Khadijah B.

“I enjoyed the conversation. Loved the topics. They’re not talked about enough. The concept is solid.” – Wes

“I was pleasantly surprised by the event. I loved the range of questions. It’s an event that invites conversation and I appreciate the range of conversations.” - Crystal

To every guest who has shown up, supported and shared a piece of themselves in this space, thank you. Because of you, this concept still exists. Here’s to another year of intentional connections over cocktails or mocktails.

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